Yep I had a mech time me driving and the gear shift seems like 2to 3 rd was .06 of a sec and 3 to 4 th ( around 40mph) was sometimes as high as .08 but I did notice I’m low on fluid where’d it go I dunno, but I’m getting the same answer you are seems like the plates aren’t locking up and the shudder we feel is when it’s trying to Grab hold to change gears ,